24

Sharing Is Caring

April 5, 2019 by Tim

Don’t mind me, I’m just over here confusing the shit out of my kids.


48
Leave a Reply

avatar
39 Comment threads
9 Thread replies
0 Followers
 
Most reacted comment
Hottest comment thread
43 Comment authors
Kelsey ArnoldTawnisCroiUrazzTim Recent comment authors
  Subscribe  
newest oldest most voted
Notify of
Andrew
Guest
Andrew

The trick is to let them choose a limited number of “favorite” toys they don’t have to share.
Then if they complain, say you share the house, beds, food, etc.
Worked on me when I was a kid.

mandoschMUh
Guest
mandoschMUh

I like that approach.

Zexius
Guest
Zexius

I can relate. 3 boys here. 2 young ones and one after 30.

Javelin
Guest
Javelin

The trick is to not have kids in the first place. I wish someone told me this before I had my four children…

Paul
Guest
Paul

The hardest part comes when they want to play on your video games. I’m terrified my kids will overwrite that 100-hour save…

Amanda
Guest
Amanda

Kind of makes you miss the old days with playstation/Playstation 2 where you had removable memory cards, right? Because at least you could hide those, haha.

Liam Price
Guest
Liam Price

Screw the kids, I’ve accidentally done that to myself

foducool
Guest
foducool

tim, it’s out of the box so it’s not in mint condition anymore lol

foducool
Guest
foducool

more afraid that they’d destroy a pad or the switch

Barbarus
Guest
Barbarus

Children are wonderful, but they have a rather nasty habit:

“Hey, that item over there – my mom/dad really cares about that. Let’s DESTROY it!”

Adorable little munchkins. XD

Drake
Guest
Drake

To be fair…

You know damn well it would not remain in pristine condition if you did share that one. Children rarely care about keeping their toys in good condition until they’re already broken!

Mickk
Guest
Mickk

There are many people out there that buy multiple copies of single items, just so that they can have their cake AND eat it too.
In other words, they buy at least one that is never ever going to be taken out of it’s box, no way, no how and one that is for ‘playing’ with but carefully of course.

Drakontis
Guest
Drakontis

I did that with the large Black Series Darth Maul, the one that comes with the saber, the binoculars, etc. A friend bought me two for a Christmas, one to mess around with and one to keep sealed away.

Tue
Guest
Tue

Those are figurines – not toys.

TBone
Guest
TBone

My four year old Nephew used to show me the cars on the shelf in his room and say “They’re for looking at, not touching”.
Strategy: My sister uses this because she runs a daycare in the house – If you don’t want to share a toy, keep it in your room (Also help keep the clutter in the house under control).

PALADiN
Guest
PALADiN

Thought this was going to be about the controversy surrounding the Borderlands 3 PC launch plans for a minute there.

Alex Van Zanten
Guest
Alex Van Zanten

Therefor you make the list of toys and put them on a board to see. They get it, but kids are like politicians: “They will talk, bully and cry to get their way if you let them”

Shrek
Guest
Shrek

I have the same experience with my pitbulls. Whomever doesn’t have the bed/bone/ Kong wants said item.

Eldest Gruff
Member
Eldest Gruff

Jeez, Tim, did The Lego Movie teach you nothing? The best way to be a parent is to let your toddler into your room of intricately cared-for models so she can destroy everything by smashing them with Duplos.

Jacob
Guest
Jacob

Pick a favorite child each week that wins mediation. Rotate on a set schedule. Maybe they’ll learn trolling results in getting trolled back and begin to cooperate, maybe not.

Scott
Guest
Scott

This strip and the past one about the hypocrisy of saying don’t play with guns whilst being a room full of toys with guns resonate, given that I have a three year old and ten month old and deal with these as well. “No, don’t take your big brother’s toy…Wait, don’t take Daddy’s Boba Fett either!”

The rAt
Guest
The rAt

How about this strategy: “I would love to share this toy with you – but it’s not mine. This toy is being shared with Daddy by a friend of his, and that friend didn’t give him permission to share with anyone else. You wouldn’t like it if you shared your toy with a friend, and then they shared it with someone else without asking, right? Next time I see my friend, I’ll ask if you can play with it – but if he says No, we have to respect that, okay?” Teaches puts things in terms they can understand, frames… Read more »

Jon
Guest
Jon

If your not confusing your children you’re doing it wrong. I do it all the time with my 4 boys. I also agree favorite toy changes based on who has it.

Sigurther
Guest
Sigurther

Nah, just explain the difference between a toy and a collectible. Personally, I’ve never been fond of the general concept of sharing. If you give a kid a toy, it’s his, right? Why should he share it? Should I share my lawn mower with my neighbor? What if I know my neighbor isn’t going to take care of it? What if I know my neighbor will, without a doubt, never return it? No, I’d rather teach my kid the concept of personal property, responsibility, and kindness. “This is yours. Take good care of it, because if it breaks, you have… Read more »

Kaitensatsuma
Guest
Kaitensatsuma

It’s simple, it’s like how you can drive the car, and they can wait until they’re 18 and out of the house.

FITCamaro
Guest
FITCamaro

Easy.

“These aren’t toys. They’re collectibles.”

My sons generally stay out of my office.

padagi
Member
padagi

My oldest is 5 and I don’t find it hypocritical at all to explain that some things are for looking at and treating with a lot of care (collectibles, ornaments, etc.), and other things are intended to be played with (toys, board games, etc.).

Kaitensatsuma
Guest
Kaitensatsuma

It’s an odd balance.

I must have been 9 or 10 and my brother absolutely refused to let me use the Sega Genesis assuming I’d “break it” somehow.

Cue my finding it where he hid it, plugging all the wires in correctly and playing Sonic Spinball while he isn’t home and him throwing controllers like they’re boomerangs and breaking them.

To this day I take better care of my things than he does.

Halosty
Guest
Halosty

People assume others are like them as well.

Deaks
Guest
Deaks

I thought this felt kind of familiar.. lol..

https://cad-comic.com/comic/my-hypocrisy-is-palpable/

Kasaix
Member
Kasaix

Hey, they’re collectibles, not toys. There’s a difference.

Kevin Greenbaum
Guest
Kevin Greenbaum

Should probably keep those in a display case with a lock or something.

Bierfan
Guest
Bierfan

Nice… same problem here in germany with my Star Wars Lego collection…

My three boys allready knows that these models are MY toys.

But invited friends are allways like “Woooah! That’s your LEGO?!? And you don’t play with it?!?” XD

Cali
Guest
Cali

Kids dont understand that those aren’t toys but statuettes. Best luck with your loveable hellions

sunman42
Guest
sunman42

In Patrick O’Brian’s Aubrey an Maturin novels, at one point the naval captain Jack Aubrey reflects that “he never was a hypocrite until he was a father.”

heliumsquid
Guest
heliumsquid

I dunno why, but the drawings of your kids seem to give off more realism to regular human bodies to me then the other characters.I think it’s cause the facial features for them are smaller proportionally to their face.

SomeRandomAnon
Guest
SomeRandomAnon

My parents always said “Do as I say, not as I do.”

DAVID
Member
DAVID

Jeez, man, just let them play with it. Otherwise Iron Man’s not going to be that cool comic/film/cartoon/toy, it’s just going to be another one of “Dad’s things”, like the lawnmower and the truss.

Thortok
Guest
Thortok

So yeah, forcing kids to share things is wrong. It teaches them that the world can take things from them whenever it wants and they have no autonomy and when something bad happens to them, you won’t care. I’m not exaggerating. There is a huge difference between teaching kids how (and why, and more importantly, when) to share and forcing them to. If they’re not old enough to understand how, why, and when to share, then just leave it alone. Forcing them to share, especially when they are too young to understand, does more harm than good. Google it if… Read more »

KaoGen
Guest
KaoGen

Maybe try dropping an egg and a golf ball or something, showing that one breaks easier than the other. (Obviously somewhere it can be cleaned up) to show that no matter how similar things may look from a distance, not everything is necessarily a toy to be played with.

I dunno, probably too much though xD

Urazz
Guest
Urazz

For me and my brothers, we were all given our own specific toys and then there were some toys that were for all of us. I.E. when we were kids, we were into Ninja Turtles. We each had our own ninja turtles that were our own and we can play with the others toys if they weren’t playing with it but would have to give that toy back if the one it belongs to wanted it back to play with. Then there were also some things like the Turtle Van and the Sewer Lair playset were for all of us… Read more »

Croi
Guest
Croi

Honestly, if you’re confusing the kids with this, then you’re doing a bad job at communicating the difference.

Tawnis
Guest
Tawnis

Yeah, I have to make a real effort to not do this. Incidentally I have to re-glue a lot of Warhammer 40k figures from time to time.

Kelsey Arnold
Guest
Kelsey Arnold

F that. I teach my kids that what’s theirs is theirs, and it’s good for them to choose to share. Some toys are communal property, and the kid currently playing with it has dibs. Late comers need to ask to play, and then the first kid with that toy can choose to share or not. If they choose not to share, I’ll usually say “OK, you can play 2 more minutes, and then it’s your sister’s turn.” I try hard to never tell them they *have* to share.